So Thursday was the second time that I have babysat for two 7 year olds that are the children of one particular of my sister's pals. I am 16 and when I arrived at the home, I was greeted by the older stage brother (19 a long time outdated). This is the initial time that I had met him and he was the total punk sort. He left and then the mom left to go out with my sister for the evening. Every thing went well until the older brother arrived again property. He arrived in and was polite and everything and asked how it was going with the little ones. He gave me this creepy feeling but I just shrugged it off and then he went up stairs to his place. About an hour later, it was the kids' bed time so I went upstairs with them and had a challenging time placing the to bed due to the fact they have been so rowdy. The older brother came out of his space and helped me (I imagined it was strange that I was becoming paid to baby-sit even when he was there). I thanked him and then went down stairs to do my homework. I discovered that he was following me down the stairs and I acquired super creeped out yet again. I went to the dinner table and began my research and whilst he was rummaging through the fridge, he started out up a conversation. Just little talk about how the kids ended up behaving and many others. Then he sat down at the table subsequent to me and began eating. This truly irked me due to the fact he was sitting very close. All of a sudden he explained, "Yea, that's not a nanny cam up there (he pointed to a small digital camera previously mentioned the cabinets)...lie that is not for you or something...they place that there for me. Ya know...cuz I'm type of in an out affected individual rehab program." This actually didn't et to me due to the fact I know a number of folks who've been in that type of circumstance. Then he went on for about a fifty percent hour about how his dad is a d*ck and doesn't enjoy him and that he's not very good sufficient for everyone. I actually couldn't do a lot besides for nod my head and agree with everything he mentioned. Soon after a while, he began truly producing me experience unusual. It's possible not unpleasant but a small strange. He turned to me and was like, "So are you concerned with anyone?" I regret telling him no. I wish I would have stated, "Yes...and he has roid rage..." but no...my imagined procedure didn't go that far. He then began flirting with me and received nearer and nearer. He then asked me for my range and I said that the Mother I was sitting for had it (even although she didn't) so he could get it from her later on if he needed. He bought it. Then he obtained up from his chair and walked up behind me although putting each of his fingers on my shoulders and stated, "I hope I'll be viewing you all around right here more." He mentioned goodnight then went to bed. Now that truly created me uncomfortable. Friday throughout university I couldn't concentrate on anything due to the fact I stored contemplating about the night time ahead of. These days, my sister decided to notify me the entire story about this guy and why the little ones are not allowed to be alone with them. I instructed her that I would babysit one far more time and if I was also uncomfortable, then I wouldn't do it yet again. I just will need some guidance since it's great income and every thing but I am not sure what to do. Please support.
XOXO
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Remedy by Pat
It's just a job. If you aren't at ease in it, get one more work. If you feel he is creepy, go with your gut instinct. He may possibly just be into you but if he is not your type, which it sounds like, then stop the task.
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