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It started when I was an au pair for 8 months and had a living hell with the mother who A. Never ever paid me my income on time. B. In no way had any foods at residence for me or her son. C. Taken care of me badly by manipulating me and put my health and security at danger when she organized for a burglar to arrive into my place whilst I was sleeping, opened the door and noticed me, took my bag that was next to my bed and then ran out....later on my bag was found by the moms boyfriend and every little thing was in it except my money. Absolutely nothing of hers was stolen and it was only not too long ago we discovered out it was her who set the whole issue up.
Other than that she left me for five days without electrical energy (no warmth, no lights) whilst her and her son went for getaway (not telling me about it).
Many instances she would have sex loudly with her boyfriend following to my space and she would at times stand exterior my bedroom door to pay attention to my mobile phone conversations...let's just say my au pair experience was a living hell and soon after my time was up I ultimately left for yet another work...
Soon after that I received a job as a nanny some spot else and rented a room, and I was handled to a camera inside the rest room which I wasn't conscious of at the time! And had to empty the potties every morning to the 6 year aged (!) twins i was a nanny for since the mothers and fathers didn't want them to wake them up by going to the rest room to pee (i know sick!).
The mom utilized me and then fired me without 1st providing me two weeks observe.
I worked twelve (!) several hours a day for 300 kilos for each week (this was in London Uk).
After that I identified another career as a waitress and had to locate a area to lease closer to my career which is wherever points really obtained bad. I rented a room from a landlord who started out out okay but then little by little started to mentally abuse me and introduced property drug addicts. He then started out to (after awhile) hit me anytime he felt angry, he had mood swings and i in no way knew what would take place when i would come house and I was as well afraid to depart (I was only 19, i'm 22 now).
Numerous occasions I feared for my lifestyle but I was as well frightened to depart and didn't want to tell my mother and father I was living hell on earth when my remain in London was intended to be excellent and enjoyable.
When I lastly broke down and told my dad I realized I want to go house which I did and I will never ever forget the landlord telling me as I was leaving "The a single that received away".
i know had i stayed any extended he would have raped me since he utilised to touch me inappropriately at times but he had never raped any person prior to but i know he felt quite tempted to rape me and he utilised to say sexual factors to me.
I nevertheless have nightmares about him and my entire daily life there, I was there for two decades, acquired back for christmas 2009 and it is been small over a year now but I even now have nightmares about it and when I obtained back property I was depressed and nonetheless experience a little depressed.
So my query is, do I have a right to sense the way i do? or ought to i have gotten about it already...I am from a little town and have never knowledgeable something like that before, never been abused or something.
I don't know how it acquired to that position but now I concern heading out, the complete of 2010 I was primarily indoors , by no means went exterior because i felt nervousness heading out currently being all around men and women.
I've realized from my time there but it is also manufactured me depressed
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Answer by Wendy
Yes
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