Tuesday, May 31, 2011

Q&A: How do we get custody of a child without court.?

Query by Paige: How do we get custody of a kid without court.?
My husband and I have been trying to find a way to battle for custody of his daughter (my step-daughter). She is two a long time outdated. Her mother is extremely young and has 3 children underneath four, by 3 distinct guys. She and her latest 'baby daddy' stay together. None of them work. We have suspicions that other people are living in the property as nicely, and have assumptions who they may be. None of these men and women perform (4 adults, three kids), and all of them do medication. The mother's boyfriend has drug fees and domestic violence charges in opposition to him in the past. There is totally NO conversation involving them and us - we do not know when she has doctors appointments, illnesses, allergies, ect. All they want is the youngster support verify and a baby sitter! We attempt to get her as a lot as we can. She has come house (to our house) several times with diaper rashes so bad it bled and harm to adjust her! She has been potty qualified at our home but they do not perform with her at all so every single weekend, we must train her once more. We suspect they do not pay interest to her, almost certainly just stick her in her area with her older sister and ignore them. There is completely NO conversation we have no clue how she is treated in the residence. They have not had a career in atleast the past 12 months and a 50 percent. My husband didn't know he had a child till she was 9 months outdated - when the welfare checks stopped! and then she needed the child support and would not allow him see her! We know there are medication in the property simply because they have security cameras outstide (but the house is a shack!) We are hoping desparetly making an attempt to conserve cash for an lawyer but that's less difficult stated than performed. And we are scared to speak to the social services in case they never 'find' anything. I know it can be truly difficult to consider a little one from its mom, but if you can see the couple and my husband and I, it is evident who is heading to present the greatest existence for the child. Does anybody have any advice for us?! I adore that minor girl with all my heart and our endurance is operating brief.
We have a journal for about a yr now with each time we speak to them, what time, and images of all of the diaper rashes. The boyfriend has threatend us numerous instances. We went to the state police dept. and they advised us it was a 'he stated, she said' type of factor, so now we report every conversation - and it is legal as long as one particular particular person in the conversation is mindful of the recording.


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Answer by pdooma
You can go by way of legal help. See if you qualify for reduced expense or totally free legal assistance.

But there is no way to get legal custody in a fight without having going to court.



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